Sunday, November 27, 2011

Visit to "Bentleyville - Tour of Lights"

The 120 foot Christmas Tree is located in the center of the 
fantasy Christmas Village of Bentleyville in Duluth, Minnesota

We visited "Bentleyville" Tour of Lights at Bayfront Festival Park, Bayfront, Duluth, MN on Wednesday evening.  It was a perfect warm night to enjoy all the lighting displays without getting too cold!  Our Granddaughter, and Sarah's niece, really enjoyed it!  So did we!

for more information:  http://www.bentleyvilleusa.org/
                                             

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Black Friday - Not for Me!!

No....I did not participate in Black Friday shopping.  I didn't even shop during the day on Friday, or Saturday or today!  I really think it's sad that the stores open earlier each year, and this year opened at midnight!  It's sad that those that work these retail places have to work such hours.  I'm afraid that next year, they will be open all day during Thanksgiving, as a few of the stores this year were.  The hassle with the crowds is just too much for me.  I looked at the ads, and didn't even see anything that I thought was a "good deal".

Our daughter in law and her Mother go out every Black Friday and I think they do it more for the "fun and the adrelein rush that they get.  They went out at Midnight and shopped all night, coming back at 6:30 or 7 am.  Our daughter and granddaughter went out about 11 am and shopped most of the day.  There's a difference though, between the four of them and me.  They all  "enjoy shopping", or I should say they "Love shopping".  I'm really not much of a shopper.  Never have been... I never feel I have the money to really shop, and so it makes me more "nervous" than "happy".   I don't get the high that some get.

I'm glad they enjoyed their night (and their day) I'm happy for all those that did shop, and I hope it helped our economy - I'm just happy I wasn't along!

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Great Thanksgiving!

THANKSGIVING 2011 - the best Thanksgiving gathering our family has had in many years.  All of our children were together with us.  We were only missing our Grandson and our Son-in-law because they both had to work.  We gathered together at our son and daughter-in-law's home.  Her side of the family was also there, and so we had a big gathering, which I always love.  Reminded me of when I lived at home growing up, and when Bob's Mother and all his Aunts were with us in the younger days of our marriage.  We even had a baby to enjoy, darling 8 month old baby girl. (Sarah and Scott's niece) Babies and children always add to the family gatherings.  Sarah and her Mother made a most delicious meal, with many side dishes and not just turkey, but also ham.  I personal favorite of the two is ham, so that was really great!

We counted our many blessings as a family.  I am truly blessed to have a wonderful family!  I hope your Thanksgiving meal and day was as good as ours!!!  

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Saturday, November 19, 2011

My Maternal Great Grandfather

                                                      This is the home of Jacob Wiley - where my
                                                         Maternal Grandmother grew up.  She
                                                      married George B. Livingston and had
                                                      three children.  Arthur, Gilbert, Romaine
                                                                    (my Mother) and John. 

My Grandma Elizabeth was widowed with three young children when my Mother was very young.  So, I never knew my Grandfather Livingston, and I have seen very few photos of him.  As you will read in my posts below, I received a great CD in the mail today, that was made by one of my Livingston cousins of old photos he gathered together from his Dad and from Grandma.  It's so great to have these, and many of them I have never seen!

My Grandfather Livingston was killed when he stepped on a live electric wire accidentally, as he was helping his brother to get his car out of the ditch during a bad storm.  Apparently wind brought wires down and they didn't know.  I have posted a copy of what was in the newspaper, that was on the CD.
I guess he and his family were well known and loved because it says over 1500 were at the funeral.  My Mother says she only remembers part of it, as she was so young.

The George on this picture was my Grandfather's Dad.  Until her Grandfather died, my Mom and two brothers shown here (Gilbert, John and Arthur) lived on this farm.  After he died, they had to move.  Life was very hard for my Grandmother.  She survived by cleaning houses for people.  Uncle Gilbert told us kids recently that there were times when she didn't know where their next meal was coming from, and then some kind neighbor would bring them something.  She always trusted in The Lord that they would be taken care of and they were.  It made her faith very strong, and my Mother's and her brothers faith also.
                                                     
                                                   The third from the left man is my Grandfather
                                                                George B. Livingston

                                               The couple on the right is my Grandma and
                                                                    Grandpa Livingston  
                                                         He looks to be a very handsome man


                                                            I cropped from the photo above

In later years Grandma married Maurice, who was a local farmer who Grandma always knew.  He became a widower...and the two of them got together and got married...I'm not sure when...but they were married before I was born.  He is the one I knew as Grandpa, although we never called him Grandpa, we called him Maurice.  Here is a cropped photo of them, taken at my wedding in 1969.
I loved Maurice...he was always quiet and never had much to say, but he would take me with him when he went to the pig pen and I would help feed the pigs, and things like that.  He was a wonderful man.

                                                                             


My Grandma and I were very, very close.  She did so much for me, and I spent so much time with her.  My Mother and her were very close too.  My Mother used to tell me that "my Mother is my best friend".                                
And this photo above is how I will always remember my Grandma Wiley-Livingston-Gochnauer
                                              I loved her so much and she lives in my heart
                                              always... look at her beautiful smile.  She was
                                               loved by so many.  I know someday I will
                                              be reunited with her and my Mother and all
                                               those I loved that went before me!
                                         

The First Jacob Wiley Reunion

This is a family photo of the Jacob Wiley Family, at their first reunion in the 50's.  These are my Maternal Mother's Aunts and Uncles.  My Grandma's brothers and sisters.  The man seated in the middle of the front row is my Great Grandfather, Jacob Wiley.  Grandma lived on the farm with him, the farm that they grew up on.  Her brothers and sisters would often come up there and visit their Dad and their sister.  Especially on Sundays when I was often with Grandma.  Therefore, I got to know my Great Aunts and Uncles as well as I knew my Aunts and Uncles (and that was well).  I was so delighted when about 5 years ago I found an 8 X 10 of this photo at the house when going through my Mother's photos.  I brought it back and have it framed and hanging in my home.
I am the third oldest grandchild in the family, and we are in the front row, along with the younger cousins.  Great Grandpa and my Grandma are holding the two youngest that were babies then.  I was 10 years old when Great Grandpa died, so I remember him pretty well.  His was the first funeral I ever attended, and everytime I smell carnations, I think of his funeral.  I remember the smell like it was yesterday and I remember that each of us grandchildren were given a carnation in one of those plastic containers holding water.  

The photo below here is the way those Great Aunts and Uncles looked while I was growing up, and I remember when this was taken at one of our reunions (which we had every year, at a local church grove).  We attended the reunion every year, and I really believe these reunions along with reunions that my Mother's Dad's family has every year, and the one my Father's family had every year, is one of the reasons I grew up valuing my family and have continued to value and treasure the memories I have of not only cousins, not only Aunts and Uncles, but also Great Aunts, Uncles and second and third cousins!!  

                                                 My Grandma is on the right in the front row
                                            her brothers and sisters - one brother is missing - he
                                             lived in California and wasn't there that day.

                                           Photo taken the same day as the first photo - First Reunion
                                            that is still being held annually every summer, after
                                           all these years!
Getting to know all of these lovely people as I was growing up, is why family and 
all family connections are very important to me!!!  

Family Treasures

What a treat I got today in our mail.  My brother told me several months ago that one of our Arizona cousins did a CD of old family photos of our Mother's side that he had collected from his Dad.  I asked him to burn a CD of it for me...and he said he would.  FINALLY, today's mail brought me the CD.  I spent a good 2 1/2 hours looking at over 500 old photos!  How exciting it was for me!  I don't know if my sister got one of these CD's, but I am posting two wedding photos of our parents here, that I have never seen, and I don't think any of us kids have ever seen.  Most of my family follows me on facebook, which seems to be taking my time away from blogging...but not my sister.  She is not on, and does not follow facebook, so Julie, these photos are for you.  I know Mom never had these photos. (or I would have them!)   One for sure was taken at Grandma's house.  Julie, Mom always led me to believe that she only had a dress for her wedding...and she never said anything about a veil. They got married at the Parsonage, with no one there.  That is all she ever told me about their weddin.....but look she did have a long wedding dress and a veil.  Wow!  She is so beautiful and Dad is so very handsome!!!

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